You're Overthinking It - book

Find Lifelong Love By Being Your True Self by Sabrina Alexis Bindery Most relationship problems don't start with the wrong person. They start with the wrong thinking. "You're Overthinking It: Find Lifelong Love by Being Your True Self" is the debut book from Sabrina Alexis Bendory — co-founder of A New Mode, one of the most widely read relationship advice platforms on the internet, reaching millions of women worldwide, and one of the most followed dating experts on TikTok and Instagram. Her work has been featured in Vogue, Newsweek, and the New York Post. This book distills more than a decade of her most impactful relationship insights into a single, accessible guide. The central argument is deceptively simple: the reason most people struggle to find and keep love isn't bad luck or the wrong partners — it's the stories they tell themselves about what they deserve, what love looks like, and why things keep going wrong. Bendory addresses the mindset patterns that quietly sabotage relationships before they h